If you want to live the part of a couple not just by being a good team but also by being lovers or staying to be lovers of each other then it is even harder.
Under the amazing wonder of a Baby and all the work that comes with it many many couples fall into the trap to forget about themselves as a couple.
Thinking about themselves seems to go better and easier today.
The part paying the bet is often the Parents’ relationship.
Of curse, if I am sleep deprived and smell sour sweet after baby milk and everything wobbles on my body I might not feel like becoming a vamp at night… But that one thing at night is not the only thing to make a couple feel like a couple.
Little things like setting the table nicely to eat – without it having to end there… Going for a Walk with the baby when the sun sets…
Or make it a habit to go to the Children`s room when they sleep (together) and just enjoy the little peaceful bundle the two of you have – together- made out of love…
Cherish time together and find little points to share togetherness and appreciation and you will see, Love is a strong plant and after winter comes spring… that`s how nature works…
There is a good reason why Professionals say – That they have seen many mistaken kids but hardly ever from happy marriages…
So keep the Love going! Keep the heat on – even if it is just a tiny little flame at some points!