Recently I had a birth preparation course for men again. A place where they can prepare for labor without all that hypocritic and artificial embarrassing stuff but rather talk real. Fact-oriented and less breathing technique 😉 They are always great fun!
This time a Guy said something that really made me think…
“…Come on seriously you know how she looks – look at her – would you feel like wanting sex…?”
hmm – well looking actually is only one reason to “feeling like wanting it” There is plenty of other reason to feel like it…
having a certain pressure? Had a bad day and need some positive mood 😉 To make the one you love happy and relaxed? To fall asleep? To produce some happiness? Because you like to give it away as a gift? To make a Baby? To show appreciation? To say thank you? To encourage the other? To have fun? To feel pretty? To motivate for sports? To spoil yourself? and many many more…
If your sexual life is only based on visual inputs then you really are missing out on a lot! Then life is very onedimensional and Your Sexlife will not endure long because sooner or later your visual attributes will weaken big time…
And even within the visual world, I have the option to choose… though I want to focus on the most advantageous spot – focus on the whole picture or just zoom in on some beautiful spots…?
You are your own photographer – you choose where you focus
Sexuality has many facets and many colors. Is multidimensional and if your life is a one-dimensional sex life then a pregnancy – aging, and reality really might kill it for you!
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives and the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years. Audrey Hepburn